Today’s Bloganuary prompt:
What is a cause you’re passionate about and why?
There are a few.
Ending mass incarceration in the United States.
Eliminating food insecurity.
And one that I’ve thought about more and more over the past few years: systems to support the aging population in the US. This wasn’t top of mind until I became my Mom’s guardian. And as I have navigated everything on her behalf, I have to wonder how people (especially aging persons with dementia) address this if they don’t have an advocate. I am incredibly grateful that we have resources to make this easier. Before I became her guardian, I was living close by. My father had the foresight to procure long term care insurance that mitigates the financial burden of care. I live in a city with a large retired population which has incredible healthcare resources. And as I’ve navigated this, I’ve noticed that caretaking generally falls to a child or another family member. What happens if there isn’t a child or family member?
It’s not just logistics. What about quality of life? Making sure that there’s a place they can call home. That is safe. That is stimulating. With healthy food. That may have been what assisted living facilities set out to provide when they were conceived. And COVID exposed the limitations of those facilities. One of the most dehabilitating factors for someone with dementia is isolation. And that’s what COVID forced upon folks in assisted living facilities. So. Much. Isolation. I understand they were doing the best they could with the information at hand. The isolation, though, was one of, if not the main, reason I decided to move Mom in with me. And had I known at the time how difficult it would be, I may have thought twice about that decision. But it makes me wonder what will happen when I reach that stage. And what options will be available.
2 thoughts on “Getting Older”
All great causes. My Mum had dementia, lived in the UK (I’m in Australia), and lived in a Home for the last 3 years of her life- luckily, the staff were awesome, and via Facebook I could see all the activities and feasting they were regularly doing. But COVID kept us all apart, and she died 6 months ago (with family by her side, and me via Facetime); aged care is indeed a much-underrated & under-resourced field of humanity we need to improve!
I’m so sorry for your loss, and glad that you were able to connect through Facebook and Facetime.