• For the Love of All Things Postal

    January 15, 2026
    delight, Travel
    For the Love of All Things Postal

    Such serendipity. A dear former colleague and her family were vacationing in Mexico City. ON THE EXACT SAME DATES I WAS!!!!! We discovered this through a mutual friend. I couldn’t believe how lucky this was. Unexpected joy is the best.

    We shared many dinners and excursions together, and shared tips on the things we had done apart. She recommended the Palacio de Correos de Mexico and I was enamored. I love all things mail. I love stamps. I love connecting through the written word. And. Oh, my goodness. The extravagance. The opulence. I repeatedly oohed and ahhed and gaped and gasped. I couldn’t believe such a structure had been built as a post office. And the preservation! Marble and gild and art and stone and mahogany and brass and statues and…

    One of the first exhibits was a collage made of postage stamps. This wasn’t a small collage. It was at least six feet wide by eight feet tall. So. Many. Stamps. And so stunning from afar, where it appeared to be a painting, and so stunning up close, where it became apparent how much painstaking care was needed to create such a masterpiece.

    Each room highlighted a different aspect of the postal service. Stamps. Plates to make stamps. Seals for letters. Postal uniforms. Post boxes through the years. Postal art.

    And then. There was the special exhibit. People who had stitched letters. Some of the letters were heartbreaking. Messages to children who had died. Messages to former lovers. Messages to family members who had passed into the next world. Messages to friends. All were stunningly beautiful.

    As we were leaving, my friend said, “That was a museum built for you.” And it was. Every brick, every light fixture, every exhibit, spoke to my heart. Thank you, Mexico. ❤

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  • La Magia de las Monarcas

    January 14, 2026
    delight, Travel
    La Magia de las Monarcas

    We arrived to Santuario Piedra Herrada, after an almost three hour drive from Mexico City. I stretched my legs slowly and breathed in the crisp mountain air. I watched my breath exhale in tiny wisps of white “smoke.” I smiled.

    We walked to the base of the mountain, where horses waited for us. José helped me mount Regal, a sweet, sleepy horse, with deep brown pools for eyes. Up the mountain we went in silence, two riders, two horses, two guides leading the way. There is something primal about being in the woods. Not just being outside, but being surrounded by wilderness, the seemingly disorderly arrangement of trees, bushes, flowers. And that’s all that you can see, all around you. It’s as though nature is enveloping you in a tight hug, reminding you that you are loved.

    Jose the guide leading Regal, the horse, on the path at Piedra Herrada Monarch Butterfly Reserve
    Jose leading me and Regal

    We rode like this for almost an hour. I marveled at lantana that were closer to the size of bushes, rather than the small plants I have at home. Sprigs of red bee balm peeked through the browns and greens of the forest. Sunlight dappled the path, where it could penetrate the tops of the oyamel fir trees. My body swayed and bobbed with Regal’s gait, lured into a peaceful trance. As we climbed higher, a fluttering captured my eye. Oh! There! The bright orange of a monarch’s wings captivated me. I watched as it glided closer, effortlessly drifting, before landing on a bright flower. I was mesmerized.

    We reached the point where horses could go no further. We dismounted, and began the final climb on foot to the top of the mountain. Ten minutes later our guide stopped. We stopped, somewhat out of breath, the elevation of 5,500 feet bearing on us. I wondered why we stopped. We were in a fir grove, mulched wood soft and spongey beneath our feet. Our guide pointed upwards.

    It took me a minute to process what I was seeing. There, on the trees, were brown clusters, which looked similar to wasps’ nests. I stood in silence, wondering what the ever so slight sound was that I could barely discern. And then I saw it. As the sunlight hit the clusters, individual monarchs peeled off and began flying around the tops of the firs. Each individual monarch appeared to be a diamond in the sky, sparkling as the sunlight reflected off its wings. I reveled in the silence. I stared upward, my eyes darting each time a butterfly took flight. They circled, they dipped, they returned to the cluster, they took flight again. A woodpecker peck, peck, pecked on a nearby tree. I was on sacred ground.

    We watched in silence, marveling at the miracle before us. I attempted a video, but camera simply could not fully capture the magic of the moment.

    After what felt like an eternity, and at the same time no time at all, our guide motioned for us to follow him back to the horses. Part of me wanted to plead for just a few more minutes. And part of me understood that I had witnessed something magical, and it was time to allow others to experience the same. As we walked to where the horses were, more butterflies fluttered past. I said a silent prayer of gratitude for being able to experience this miracle. Muchas gracias, mis monarcas.

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  • Heartbreak (in a good way)

    December 29, 2025
    delight

    Today I received a thank you card from my ten-year old godson, thanking me for his birthday gift. And then, in a child’s handwriting, where letters aren’t quite perfectly formed, he added this:

    And my heart broke. In the most wonderful way. Because I miss him, too. I miss our loud and rambunctious outings. I miss snuggling hard on the couch. I miss listening to books on tape together.

    I miss all of my friends in the Bay Area, especially the children of all of my dearest friends. It’s like watching the best of the best grow up again. It’s a lot to hold true all at once: not missing living in the Bay Area, for the cost of living, for the politics, for the homelessness *and* at the same time missing the people that I love so dearly. So hard. Missing the opportunity to be part of their day to day lives. I guess that’s what letters are for, right?

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  • Missing

    December 24, 2025
    Asheville Living, family

    Christmas is a hard holiday. Or rather, Christmas Eve is. It’s a day for traditions. For opening one present. For dinners with family. It’s difficult when there is no family.

    I miss Christmas Eve with Mom and Dad. I miss all of us jockeying when to fill each others’ Christmas stockings, trying to do it when no one else will notice. I miss the Moravian Lovefeast in Rural Hall culminating at midnight, singing carols, eating buns, and drinking Sanka.

    I stare in wonder at my friends who still have one, or both, of their parents. Do they realize how lucky they are? Have they any idea how much they will miss them when they’re no longer there? When traditions no longer are, because the people aren’t there to uphold them?

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  • Witness

    December 22, 2025
    Asheville Living
    Witness

    Since the summer, my right hand has been going numb, and I drop things – books, paintbrushes, silverware, glasses. This morning I had carpal tunnel surgery. The surgeon repeatedly mentioned it was a quick surgery – 15 minutes tops. She asked if I wanted general or local anesthesia. For only 15 minutes, I didn’t want to endure the fogginess that general anesthesia brings on, sometimes for days. I chose local.

    As we entered the waiting room, she asked what music I’d like during the procedure. I chose the Hamilton soundtrack, which has gotten me through so many difficult situations before. A large needle with local anesthesia was injected into my right hand, and I went numb almost immediately. As “The Schuyler Sisters” played, I sang loudly, “We hold these truths to be self evident, that all men are created equal, and when I meet Thomas Jefferson, I’m gonna impel him to include women in the sequel. Work!” The tech told me to sing it, sister (something I’ve never heard before, and was encouraged by). They washed me in an iodine solution, and began to position a drape between my arm and my head. “Oh, no, no, no. If I’m going to be awake, I want to watch.”

    The drape needed to be there for hygienic reasons. And, she said that with each step, they would raise the drape so that I could see what was happening. I felt the incision, more like pressure than pain, and didn’t feel anything else. I asked why I didn’t feel blood spurting everywhere (I expected this after cutting into my wrist), and she said there was something in the anesthesia to stop the bleeding, and she had cauterized me. I had not smelled the singe of skin, so that surprised me. And, I was impressed.

    She snipped, and dug, and snipped some more. The incision was held open by forceps (what a wonderful tool, forceps), so it appeared more like a rectangle than a slit. She cut the ligament, to create more space for the nerve. She explained what she was doing, and where, as she did it. I saw the finished result, a lovely opening where my nerve could move freely.

    She then explained they would flush the wound, and I felt ccs of saline injected and expunging. I saw the freshly cleaned wound, and she began stitching me closed. I admired her stitches, and then she began the work of bandaging me. It felt excessive (much like Randy in A Christmas Story being bundled up to go outside in the cold), but I didn’t object. I wiggled my fingers, and she told me we were done. How lucky I am to witness such a procedure.

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  • Nostalgia

    November 28, 2025
    Asheville Living, delight
    Nostalgia

    The most recent book to become available on Libby was Human Acts: A Novel. I started reading it last night and finished it today. Though this was not a chapter in Korean history I was familiar with, I was overcome with nostalgia for my time spent there in 2001-2002.

    Nostalgia washes over me. I remember experiencing illiteracy for the first time. I could read the hangul letters, and sound out words on signs, and had no idea what the meaning of said words were. Everything was new. Each day was an explosion of learning. How to order in a restaurant. How to pay the electric bill (at the post office?!?). How to navigate transportation systems. The kindness of strangers.

    And the seoye classes. My job as an English teacher didn’t start until 3 pm. So every morning I took seoye classes with Mr Song. Me, and seven Korean grandfathers. Seoye, or Chinese calligraphy brush painting, was something one traditionally did in retirement. But I loved the beauty of writing and art, and asked if Mr Song would allow me to take classes with him each morning. He agreed, though he spoke minimal English, and I spoke minimal Korean. Each morning, for hours, we sat at our desks, brush held at a ninety degree angle to the paper, and practiced strokes. Mr Song would often come by and place his hand over mine, coaxing my hand into the correct position to make beautiful brush strokes. I would smile and offer an enthusiastic “Khamsa-hamnida!”

    About a month into classes, the group decided that one day a month would be spent on a field trip to a cultural institution to expose me to more Korean heritage. Again, because of their limited English, and my limited Korean, I’m not sure that I understood the full depth of what they intended to impart. And I appreciated the great kindness they showed. Our first trip was “The Welcome Party.” They introduced me to black pig (delicious) and the correct way to pour and receive soju (dangerous).

    They taught me the Korean song for the 2002 FIFA World Cup, “Oh Pilseung Korea.” We sang it through the month of the World Cup, waving the Taegeukgi flag and cheering for the national team that eventually landed fourth in the tournament.

    Nostalgic, I found my bag of seoye materials in my craft room. I probably haven’t examined the materials in 20 years, yet they’ve made the move with me from apartment to condo, from San Francisco to Asheville. I took out my onion skinned practice papers. I marveled at how proficient I used to be.

    I spread the felt cloth over my dining room table. I opened my ink stone and began to grind the onyx black ink. I twisted my brush into a fine point, and began my exercises. For hours, I awkwardly practiced strokes – numbers first, then common characters such as happiness, longevity, and strength. I’ve lost the natural flow of strokes. But I haven’t lost the overwhelming feelings of calm and peacefulness as I silently place ink to paper. I’m grateful.

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  • The Call of the Pacific

    October 31, 2025
    delight, Tales of San Francisco
    The Call of the Pacific

    Hands down, the thing I miss most about living in San Francisco is the ease of connecting with friends. We still connect, through postcards, and texts, and emails, but the in person visits require a bit more coordination now that I’m on the east coast.

    What surprised me about my most recent visit is that I discovered I also *really* miss the Pacific Ocean. I had two very different, yet equally perfect, days with her this trip.

    On Saturday, we were at Ocean Beach. It was a quintessential San Francisco summer day. Cold, drizzly, and ridiculously strong winds. My legs were bare and the coarse sand pounded against my exposed skin. My loose hair whipped around my head, preventing me from always seeing. The water was rough, no surfers daring to tackle it. I love the raw power of the Pacific Ocean on days like this.

    Stormy Pacific Ocean at Ocean Beach in San Francisco

    On Wednesday, I walked along Crissy Field. A gentle breeze blew, the sun warmed my bare arms. This was San Francisco October at its best. Blue skies, gentle breeze, warm sun. The most perfect month to visit. I stopped at one of the many wooden benches overlooking the Bay. The water isn’t as rough here. I can see to Marin. Sailboats glide by. Tankers slowly make their way across. The Golden Gate Bridge stands majestically in the distance, its International Orange contrasting with the blues of the Bay and the sky. The roar of Highway One traffic is in the near background, yet feels far away. A young couple sits cross legged on a blanket in the sand not far away, facing each other with little space in between. Talking, laughing, ignoring their Husky. The Bay is the epitome of opportunities – anyone’s dream can become reality here.

    Beautiful San Francisco Bay on a sunny October day
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  • Morning Fog

    October 20, 2025
    Asheville Living

    I was driving past Beaver Lake. I normally wasn’t there at this time of the morning. The fog was dense. The heron was there. I was grateful for this moment of serendipity.

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  • Happy

    October 19, 2025
    Asheville Living, delight
    Happy

    The day was perfect. Blue skies, puffy white clouds, cool temperatures. I had just come home from dance class, and sat on the front porch, rocking in my favorite chair and enjoying the moment before it dawned on me that it would be a perfect day to drive up to the Parkway. Sections that had been closed since Hurricane Helene had just reopened. I prepared some snacks and jumped into the car.

    As I drove higher and higher, I felt an overwhelming sadness. I saw evidence of the destruction Hurricane Helene had wrecked. I was grateful for the crews that had worked so hard to reopen the parkway. I was sad for all the downed trees and destruction. Both can be true all at once.

    I parked at the trailhead to Black Balsam. I bounded up the rocky path, and relished in the pristine air. I appreciated the silence. I hadn’t realized how accustomed I had grown to noise. I loved the lack of it. Silence is beautiful. Silence is restorative.

    I don’t know what they were, but the bare trees with bunches of red berries were striking. The sun over the horizon was invigorating. The red leaves rustling in the wind. All were almost too beautiful to take in. Almost.

    I sat on a rock and just was. I looked out over the mountains. I listened to the wind blowing. I felt the warmth of the sun. I appreciated the land that has been here for ages and will continue to be here for ages to come. I was content. I was happy.

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  • Three Dahlias

    September 30, 2025
    Asheville Living, delight
    Three Dahlias

    I love when it rains. There’s something about inhaling the clean air, pondering the metaphor of renewal, and the practicality of knowing I don’t have to water the garden. As an added bonus, after the rain I pick all the downed flowers for an inside bouquet.

    This morning, three beautiful pink dahlias lay in the mulch, their stems snapped by the high winds during the night. I brought them in and marveled at how different, and how spectacular, each bloom is. Three perfect dahlias.

    Dahlia one, as large as my spread hand
    Dahlia two, pink petals almost transparent
    Dahlia three, with perfectly curled petals
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