• September 9, 2002
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    North Carolina

    That’s where I am now. After hours of flying (again), I am at my parents’ condo in Winston-Salem, North Carolina. I will have solitude for a few weeks while they are on their around the world expedition. I believe at the present time they are in the south of France.

    Things I noticed upon my arrival:

    **They have the most non-food food products in their pantry that I’ve ever seen. Fake butter, fake seasonings, non-fat crackers. Just reading the labels transported me back to high school chemistry class.

    **White wine is not meant to be aged. I’m not sure anyone has explained this to them.

    **My mother will freeze anything. There was a very sweet note on the kitchen counter, instructing me where to buy groceries, when to water the plants, who the neighbors are (“You be sure to drop in now, ya’ hear…”), and that there was food awaiting me in the freezer in the utility room. This surprised me. They departed over a month ago. I scurried to the utility room, quite hungry after my transcontinental flights (on which meals are no longer served). I was greeted by frozen bread, individual frozen portions of chicken, frozen soup, frozen raisins, frozen Craisins, frozen nuts, frozen crackers, frozen pound cake (individual portions), frozen cookies, pretty much anything that was left in the pantry was put in the freezer. This will be interesting…

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  • September 9, 2002
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    34 E, F

    Those are the seat numbers of the world’s loudest children. Really. I was sitting right in front of them on the flight to Chicago this morning.

    Before taxing to take off, I heard 37 different renditions of the ABC song, as well as the Happy Birthday song, in varying pitches and tones.

    I always wear my seat belt, even when the seat belt sign isn’t illuminated. Today it paid off. I had drifted to sleep sometime shortly after takeoff. The lull of movement, any movement, really, car, train, plane, boat, beckons me to sleep. Today was no exception. I was almost to that point of unconsciousness, that point where I can tell I can’t feel anything, when a loud, “Bang!” pierced my ears. 34F had decided to cross that slight boundary between his row and mine. I felt myself jumping out of my seat, jerked back into place by my seat belt.

    It was a long flight.

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  • September 6, 2002
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    The Thrill of Brazil

    That is the red that now adorns my toes. As I was sitting in the salon, carefully pondering which color I should choose for my first pedicure in what feels like forever, I wondered, Who is the person that names nail polishes? How does one qualify for that job? I mean, these were a few of my many choices: I’m Really Not a Waitress, Color My Heart….Red, All Rose Leads to Rome, Chick Flick Cherry, Fiji Weejee Fawn, Grape Wall of China, Muave-a-rita, Por Favor, Queen of d’Nile, the list goes on. It’s incredible. And these were only the OPI colors…. It makes me want to get a pedicure everyday, just so I can say, Hey, can you guess what I’ve got on my toes today?

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  • September 5, 2002
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    Well, I’m back. San Francisco is exactly like I remembered it. I think I’m the one who’s changed. It’s been a week of reuniting, parties, searching (jobs and living space). A little overwhelming. But, a good change. Though I haven’t been blogging, I have been writing, so here are a few pieces from the past few days. China stories still in progress. What an amazing place. It’s good to be back.

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  • September 3, 2002
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    Free!

    There’s something wonderful about getting something for free. It’s even better when it’s something you actually want. Today I got three things for free. I’m happy.

    The first came when I was purchasing airline tickets online through Travelocity. As I entered my credit card number, and pressed at least half a dozen buttons acknowledging the ticket was not refundable, not changeable, not usable by anyone except me, a pop up window appeared. If I completed a survey, I had the chance of winning $25 and could get $70 worth of gifts for free. I love surveys. I love sweepstakes. I was thrilled.

    I completed the painless survey, and my choice of free gifts appeared. Up to three magazines, the first year free, then you had to pay. I didn’t like any of the magazines. I thought of signing my ex-husband up for magazines (he likes to read), but I imagined it escalating into an issue after the first year if he forgot to cancel the subscription. Who pays, then? So, I declined the gifts. It was a nice thought, though.

    My next free item was at Walgreens. On my previous visit there I had received two cash register receipts. How wasteful, I thought to myself. But upon closer inspection, one was a Super Cash Register Check Out Counter Customer Appreciation Coupon. Which, technically, makes it sound like they are thanking you for checking out, and not shoplifting. Doesn’t seem like quite the marketing message they should be sending out.

    Anyway, the coupon was for a free Nabisco big bag of crackers or snacks, value $0.99. I combed the aisles for Nabisco snack products. All I found were animal crackers ($1.29) and big bags of Oreo Double Stuff (way over $3.00). I asked the check out clerk for assistance. She wandered up and down the aisles, having as much success as I had. She called the manager. I mentally calculated how much it was costing Walgreens, even at minimum wage, to help me locate a product I would have never bought but was seeking because it was offered to me for free. I was ahead. The manager surveyed the same aisles both I and the clerk had, mumbling, “I know they are here somewhere. I know I’ve seen those crackers.” She finally turned to me, handed me back the coupon, and with a wave of her arm said, “Lady, just go grab a bag of chips.” I didn’t particularly like anything offered, but remembered Emily (the best friend in the whole world who has let me crash in her studio with my four big suitcases and not complained) has a passion for Cheetos. She was quite happy when she arrived home from work and found a big grab bag of Cheetos awaiting her consumption.

    But the third was the best. After dinner, I had a craving for a milkshake. A good, thick, Ben and Jerry’s cookies and sweet cream milkshake. I hesitated at the door of Ben and Jerry’s; it was late and the chairs were already up on the tables. The guy behind the counter motioned to me, “Come on in, we’re not closed.” My three girlfriends followed me in. I walked up to the counter decisively. I’d like a cookies and sweet cream milkshake, l… “Don’t have it.” I stared at him. I couldn’t quite comprehend what he was telling me. I’ve waited 9 months for a milkshake, and you don’t have my favorite flavor? “Sorry, lady, we only have the flavors on the board.”

    I continued to alternatively stare between his face and the board, wondering what could possibly replace cookies and sweet cream. “Do you like caramel?” I nodded, a blank look on my face. “How about maple syrup?” I nodded once again, still speechless that they were out of cookies and sweet cream. “Try this one.” He gave me the largest sample scoop of ice cream I’ve ever had. I tasted it. Mmmm. This is good. What is it? “You tell me, and your milkshake is free.”

    I glanced up at the board. Triple Caramel Chunk? Maybe, but there were no chunks to speak of. Butter Pecan? Maybe, but Butter Pecan normally doesn’t have maple syrup in it. I don’t think. Hmmm. The Full VerMonty? Vermont=Maple Syrup. Not sure where the caramel comes into play. The Full VerMonty? I asked. He turned around from his milkshake making duties and gave me a playful “bang bang.” “You got it.” I squealed. Guys! I won! I won! My friends, involved in a deep conversation, turned to me. “What? What did you win?” I guessed the flavor! I got it right! The guy behind the counter leaned over and said, “But you know I can’t give you the milkshake for free.” I laughed. That’s okay – I still won! I guessed the flavor right! Thank you! He finished making the milkshake, added extra whipped cream, handed it to me, shook his head and said, “This one’s on me – enjoy…”

    And that was the best free of all.

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  • September 2, 2002
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    Fresh Lemonade – 75 cents

    That was what we saw as we wound down the curvy mountain road. A sandy haired boy, probably 7 or 8, was standing beside the road, waving the sign. I turned to Emily. She smiled and pulled over. I rolled down the window as she slowed down and rolled into the small side road. “We’d like two, please,” I said to the boy, probably the sign holder’s brother, manning the table stocked with pots of lemonade, ladles, and bright red plastic cups. Emily turned the car around then stopped. Through the window, I handed the boy a dollar bill and two quarters. He slid the money into a tattered envelope. “That’s two, right?” “Yes,” I called to him. He walked back to the car and said, “Well, there’s a bonus, just today, you get two free cookies with your lemonades,” and he placed two Oreos into my hand. I handed one to Emily and smiled. “Thank you very much, sir.” He carefully ladled the icy lemonade into the plastic cups, adding a lemon slice to each cup before handing them to us. “You ladies enjoy your day.”

    As we pulled away, I pondered the value of this exchange. Fresh lemonade. Good presentation. Excellent customer service. Reasonable price. Bonus cookie. Supporting local business. The epitome of win win.

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  • September 2, 2002
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    Weekend

    Grilled corn.

    Toasted marshmallows.

    Bright stars.

    Tall redwoods.

    Morning run.

    Afternoon kayaking.

    Cold river.

    Hot sun.

    Old movies.

    Buttered popcorn.

    Close friends.

    Seaside sunset.

    Encompassing hugs.

    bliss

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  • August 28, 2002
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    Not A Good Sign…

    I went to look at an apartment tonight. In Russian Hill, one of the neighborhoods I formerly lived in. As I was walking home, to Emily’s apartment in Pacific Heights, I noticed a large church. No, more of a cathedral. That’s funny, I thought to myself, I don’t remember there being a cathedral on the way to Emily’s. As I got closer, I realized it was Grace Cathedral, on Nob Hill, the exact opposite direction of where I should be heading.

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  • August 23, 2002
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    DragonAir

    This airline rocks. It’s clean. The flight attendants are the nicest of any I’ve ever encountered. The food is good. We departed on time. We arrived before schedule. They offer complimentary perfume and cologne in the toilets, appropriately named “Nomad.” And, if the plane is going to crash, the pilot yells, “BRACE!” over the intercom, just to prepare you. That’s service.

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  • August 23, 2002
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    Leaving Xi’an

    Peter, our driver, picked us up at the hotel, expertly loaded our bags into his small trunk, and we were on our way. Morning traffic in Xi’an. No lanes, just activity. Cars, buses, people walking, people biking, people standing, people running. At major intersections there were traffic lights, at times obeyed. At really major intersections were immaculately dressed traffic police, soulless in their mirrored sunglasses, crisply waving their white gloved hands to stop, turn, go on.

    We dodged our way through city traffic, the people starting their day, going to work. We only witnessed one wreck, a mini van up against a curb, windshield shattered, glass beads splayed all around, the three occupants squatting on the median, none appearing to be injured. After about half an hour we left the city buildings behind, approaching fields. Just as suddenly as the city had started, it stopped. We were in the country. No billboards, no skyscrapers, only rows and rows of corn, occasionally interrupted by fields of sunflowers. Bright, smiling yellow faces turned upward to greet the sun, the first rays in 3 days. And so many tombs. The giant mounds, small hills, under which important people from hundreds, thousands of years ago, were buried.

    Peter explained, in his broken English, about the museum at the airport. I listened carefully. “Very good. Museum. Qian dynasty. First. Han, terra cotta soldiers, second. This first. At airport. So good.” We all expressed surprise. I remembered back to three days ago, walking across the rudimentary tarmac to the functional, yet sterile, baggage claim. I didn’t remember seeing any services, much less a museum, in the airport facilities. I stared out the window, alternating fields of corn and sunflowers flying by.

    Peter started to exit. The sign for the airport indicated we should be going straight. At the same moment, both mom and dad spoke up from the back seat. “Peter, we need to go to the airport.” “Airport? No museum? Museum very good.” “I don’t think we have time. International flight.” “No time? Okay.” And he veered back onto the highway.

    We arrived at the airport at 9:30, the suggested time for our 11:30 am DragonAir flight to Hong Kong. Flying to Hong Kong from mainland China is considered an international flight, even though in name they are part of the same country. The counters were unoccupied. No one at the Airport Fee counter. No one at security. No one at check-in. We were perplexed. We stood in the middle of the lobby, looking around. Finally, an employee arrived to the security counter. We walked over, showed our passports and tickets, and in sign language he indicated we couldn’t check in until after 10:00. Maybe Peter knew best after all.

    Unlike the domestic terminal, this terminal, though antiquated, did have services. A dusty coffee shop in the corner of the lobby, 5 small round tables with 4 ancient, wobbly upholstered chairs surrounding each. We started to sit at one of the tables. The waitress approached us, handed us a placard in Chinese and stood there, bored, waiting for our order. I turned to mom and dad. “Coffee? Tea?” I turned to the waitress, using my fingers and voice, indicated, Two teas. One coffee. Thank you. In a few minutes she returned, absentmindedly placed the beverages on the table, turned to me, “Pay. 40 yuan.” Geez. Even in China airport food is expensive. Comparatively. I handed her a 50 note. She shuffled off, returned with a crumpled 10 note in her hand and lazily pushed it towards me.

    We drank our beverages, taking in the lack of ambiance of the terminal. The three coffee shop workers, sitting, staring absently into space. Every few minutes a sharply dressed airline steward arrived, the men in their pressed suits, the women clicking along in their high heels and sleek hair. They breezed through security, disappearing around a corner. Another westerner arrived. He stood in the middle of the lobby, just as we had, only minutes before, confounded by the lack of employees. After a couple of minutes, I stood up, walked over to him. Are you on the 11:30 flight to Hong Kong? “Why, yes, I am…” he replied in a crisp English accent. We are, too, I motioned towards my parents. You won’t be able to check in until after 10:00. “Ahhh. Right you are. I could have stayed at the hotel, then.” I smiled. I know. Us, too. I headed back towards the “coffee shop” and he followed, staking out a table beside ours.

    In addition to the coffee shop, there was a small area designated as a gift shop, a place to spend those last few yuan you might have in your pockets. Dad and I entered and explored, hoping to find a treasure we had not already seen in one of the many markets we had experienced in Xi’an. Same things. Chocolate in the form of terra cotta soldiers. Chocolate covered chestnuts. Dried fruits – ginger, apricots, plums. Bottles of ginger concoctions. Silk pajamas. Small, bright orange and red stuffed tigers, to place in a baby’s crib to protect them from nightmares. Tea sets. Calligraphy brushes. One of the employees approached dad. In quick English, she said, “Is this your first visit to China? Where are you from? Who is that?” Dad answered her questions, indicating we were from the United States, it was our first visit to China, we had spent 3 days in Beijing, 3 days in Xi’an, we were going to Hong Kong, I was his daughter, and I taught English in Korea. “Ah. I thought she was a teacher. She looks very educational.” I looked at her and smiled, wondering how a person can look educational.

    She approached me. “Do you speak Korean?” Well. Some. Only a little. She pulled out her notebook, asking me different phrases in Korean she could say to the Korean customers. The only useful ones I could think of were “Hello”, numbers, “This is good.” She started asking questions about how to say what something is made of – cotton, wood, silk – words I have no idea for in Korean. I told her to wait a minute. I returned with my Korean/English dictionary. We looked up words, she wrote them phonetically in Chinese. At that moment, I realized the absurdity of the situation. Me, an English speaker, telling her phrases in Korean, using my English and limited Korean, her responding in English, yet writing the words in Chinese characters. She flipped through the dictionary. She asked me to listen to her pronunciation and give her feedback. “Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday. How are you? Would you like this? This is a very good price.” Her pronunciation was excellent. I proclaimed, Perfect! and she giggled and blushed. How did you learn English? You speak very well. “Xi’an Foreign Language University. Thank you.”

    I returned to the coffee shop. We sat, watching groups of travellers arrive, mostly Chinese, some other foreigners. Families, snapping pictures together before one or two lined up for security. The Chinese, looking prim and proper, the women in their pastel suits and small heels, the men in dress shirts and pressed pants. The Westerners, quite slovenly by comparison, in t-shirts and jeans or skimpy tank tops, bra straps peeking out.

    At security, the Chinese inspector took particular interest in my passport. I wondered what could be wrong. Then I realized he was just curious. He looked at my passport photo, taken right before I was divorced. It’s not a flattering photo. My hair is extremely short, dark, and I look tired. He stared at me, smiling. I smiled back. He looked at the picture again. “You?” and he pointed at me. I laughed. Yes, it’s me. He looked through all the pages of my passport, at the stamps from the various countries. He looked at the picture again. He stared at me, still smiling. I smiled back. He laughed. I waited. After a few minutes, he gave me another smile and my passport. I tried the only Chinese I know. Xie xie. Thank you. He smiled. I felt his eyes on me as I continued to the check in counter.

    A few more security checks, a walk across the tarmac, and we were on our way to Hong Kong.

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